Partners in evolution – personality and soul

April 28th, 2014 by Tonya

Two friends of mine, a couple a few years older than me, are a source of constant entertainment to me. Why? Because their relationship mirrors perfectly the way the soul and the personality relate to each other – at least until the point on our path where the personality accepts the sovereignty of the soul Read More...

On the journey from head to heart

April 20th, 2014 by Tonya

I have a new coaching client who, despite having worked on herself for some time and doing a good deal of dedicated meditation, still feels she is 'not moving forward,' from a spiritual point of view. I reflected on why this was and it came to me that it was perhaps because she had not yet made the journey 'from the head to the heart' Read More...

A little light on depression

April 12th, 2014 by Tonya

A number of people have been emerging in my coaching life just lately who are going through what we might call depression. I choose that word carefully because, like words like 'divorce', 'cancer' and 'Voldemort' ('he who shall not be named,' in the Harry Potter books) they generate a kind of aura around them that can stop people looking them straight in the eye, feeling any authentic feelings that arise and being open to seeing what's truly going on Read More...